萱萱长大了
Meimei: 萱萱长大了..
She was going to toilet to 💩
Then I see her U-turn march out again
“What are you doing”
“I want to keep my cards from the sofa first else later Aunty Siti scold”
No anger. Just an understanding of how things work in this context
It is very weird that I cannot find any photos of the kids for this month. What have we been doing?!
Funny how things happens. How is it 萱萱 turns out to be Perfect material?! Especially when Meimei and I were not the most obedient nor compliant kid in school. Anyways I'm happy that 萱萱 is achieving some recognition at school. This can only help her in getting to a better Secondary school. My only concern is whether this role makes her stand out and get teased by other classmates. We'll be watching her closely so she doesn't get impacted by any negative abuse.
Special treat for the kids today with a trip to Heartbeat swimming pool right across the street. We had not brought the kids here in a long long time because we were afraid they fall sick. But they are older now so it's time we put in the effort to give them more time outside of home.
They were definitely thrilled and had so much fun at the pool. And when we finish I gave them a treat at Burger King. I repeated that the treat is a one off and they cannot expect to come for ice cream and fries every time. I'm not sure they heard it but oh well. I'm just happy I gave them the time.
We have been discussing this for the longest time and finally we are getting to it. It's very hard to buy a treadmill without trying so today we went on a trying spree. We were at Aibi Marina Parade to try the T420 and while we like that it was slim and compact, the short length was of a little concern. Meimei was worried that I might miss a step on my back foot and fall. Well, it would definitely be better if it was longer but the spot we intend to place the treadmill doesn't allow for it. The guy helping us was knowledgable and wasn't pushy. We told him that we were going to several stores to try before deciding on one to buy. He asked for my number to call us later when he checks with his management if he can offer us a better deal than the list price on it. He called while we were driving to our next location and offered us $800 off the list price which really made it attractive.
Next we were at Homegym at Kitchener Complex. They had a wide range of treadmills but I was there mainly to try the Shua E9 and Reebok Jet 100. They were larger, wider machine which makes for comfortable running. Meimei didn't seem impressed though with the size.
I think the call back had caught our attention. The detour to Homegym was simply that ... a trip to see something else to make our purchase not seem like an impulse buy. But with a $800 discount to put the cost of the T420 at $1.2K did the trick and we went back right after and paid for the treadmill.
I wanted to mark this occasion because it's been a long time since we were able to sit together to have dinner on a Sunday. We have a new maid at 406 to look after XY so everyone could sit leisurely to have a proper meal unlike before when we were rushing here and there.
I like eating together as a big family. And I'm sure there are many more to come.
First servicing at Tan Chong. A comfortable place with high tables and chairs with power points for people like me who have to work but didn't apply for leave :-p No sense to do so when I have to work at night.
It was a short wait and I was done by noon. Nothing much for the first 1K servicing except probably to check on the essential gears and parts.
I never thought this was possible but it is now. There is a new Fairprice Finest in the basement of Century Square and there is a bar inside. It serves finger food from the cooked food takeaway stall. I see constant stream of people coming here to drink wine and beer. But there is always an open spot at the bar counter so this is now my go-to waiting spot for Sundays when I'm alone and waiting for kids to finish Berries tuition.
It's been 2 years since my Tinnitus started. I think I've handled it well by not letting it affect my life and mood. It hasn't been easy because I can't hear properly on my left ear. But thankfully Meimei has been very patient with me, always repeating when I cannot hear and not showing any ounce of frustration at all. I think that in itself really helped me.
In some ways it does however affect my work. I regularly have to ask my colleagues to repeat themselves. Sometimes I try not to ask so as not to do it so often that they become irritated. This is the biggest concern because they may not be as sympathetic as Meimei. And we definitely need this job for the family.
Meimei recently contacted her company's doctors and was referred to Nuffield Medical at Wheelock Place. We went there for a consultation and it cost a good $900+. I was referred to an audiologist to fit a hearing aid. As expected there wasn't anything the doctor could do. If there was I would have found a sure way of addressing it online. This is an ailment that tortures millions of people worldwide. If anyone found a cure, they would be a billionaire.
So we met the audiologist at Novena a few weeks ago and went through another hearing test which was much more comprehensive than the normal ones. The chart below shows the test outcome. The red line and circles are results for my right ear and blue cross for my left. As I understand it, if it falls between 0 to 20 it's normal. There will be deterioration in everyone as we age but given my age, the fall off at 2K and 6-8K is not normal. The bold T represents the estimated frequency of my Tinnitus. Based on the chart the audiologist was able to diagnose that I cannot hear certain syllabus of sounds like ch and sh clearly. Hence I am 'missing' parts of words which then inhibits my ability to interpret the words heard.
Guess I'm glad we figured out more. It seems there is a slight improvement as compared to my test at SGH 2 years ago. So the earring is slowly recovering but am unlikely to ever recover totally to what it was before. Plus there is the Tinnitus which is not going away ever.
So anyways I received my hearing aid today. It's a mid-range one that set us back $5800. But hopefully it helps me hear better. I opt for the Behind-the-Ear type. I'm not sensitive to others seeing it. In fact I rather people know I have a hard time hearing so they understand why I ask them to repeat themselves.
The audiologist says he thinks we can cure my Tinnitus. I'm not hopeful but willing to work with him. I fitted one from Re-Sound which has a Tinnitus manager function that fits white noise through the speaker. This is suppose to help my brain slowly hear that there is always a sound and stop making its own. It's a long process and may take months or years. Eh well I'm not ambitious to think I can be cured. I just don't want things to deteriorate. So I'm giving it a good go at it and see what comes out of it, if any.
阳阳 is interested in video games like me. I think it's a guy thing. 萱萱 likes to play Pokemon go and Mini Sago but oddly enough she has no interest whatsoever on the handheld Mario game. Which is not a bad thing considering they are not going to fight over it. Maybe that's why 阳阳 wants to play it, since he knows 萱萱 isn't going to try and wrangle it from him. Hmmm. Regardless of that I need to watch him closely so he doesn't over indulge in gaming at the expense of his studies.
Meimei has devised a new ingenious game to play with the kids called "High, Low, Buffalo".
So you have to describe a high point, low point and a random thing that happen in the day. I think it helps the kids to think about their day and put it into words. Especially the low points.
It also gives us an opportunity to listen what is making them sad or angry during the day. As they get older, this is definitely important we keep tabs on their feelings and emotions.
I liked it a lot because it can replace the guessing game which I don't really fancy playing before night. They get all excited and then complain they cannot sleep. At least with High Low Buffalo it's just recollecting the day and kinda gives a closure to the day and they can go to bed.
